Tip #2-F: Behavior

Hello Ladies, this one is for you. In this episode we will discuss your behavior and what a man expects from you. Ok, so if a man asks you out; it would be wise to determine if it is dutch or not. I have the opinion that if he asks he pays, but these are changing times and I am a little old fashioned. You don't want to show up on a date with absolutely no money, especially if he picked you up because you may need a taxi. Also, you need to take care in your attire. Wear neat clean clothing, Sultan Sassypants likes women to look classy, not slutty. Sure, if you are playing dress up and have no intention of going home with a guy at the bar, you just want to hang out with a friend and look whorish that is fine. However, when you go on a date, you need to not look whorish. If he sees you dressing like a slut he will think only of getting you in the sack and then never call you again. If you don't know the difference between classy and slutty please refer to Tip #1-F.

Next up, you need to take care in your body language. Your body language should be inviting, I don't mean drape yourself across him, just let your body language express that you are digging him. Don't sit with your arms crossed and a shitty look on your face, smile often and relax. If you look stiff and uncomfortable he will instantly think you are not into him and that you are a waste of his time. You should also touch a little, again don't grope him, but those friendly pats and touches will help him to know that you are into him.

You also need to be confident. There really is no bigger turn off than an insecure whiny date. If he asked you out, he is into you so go with it and be happy. Carry yourself with poise and dignity. Be comfortable in your skin and happy to be yourself. Always be yourself. You should be positive and optimistic, your date doesn't want to hear about how awful your life is and will always be. That is not going to win him over. You can and should start this positive thinking now. Make it a lifestyle change. Find something, anything, every day that makes you happy. There is always something good in every situation, even the ones that suck. If you start with small thoughts you will soon build a habit of finding the positive in any situation and that will go a long way to helping your self esteem and make you a far more confident person. And a happier one.

Be sure to make a lot of eye contact and share equal conversation. Neither of you should be the only one talking. Don't sit there staring off at nothing or worse, another guy. When you are there with him, be there with him. Also, don't spend the night talking about exes, he doesn't want to know at this point. Don't compare him to an ex either.

Big one here. Don't spend the night bitching about things. Don't be a bitch. Even if the food and service are awful, keep your gaping headvent shut. You are on a date and impressions are important.

If you go out and keep these things in mind and use some common sense you have a great chance at a great date. Don't invite drama to the table and be a confident, optimistic and happy you.

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